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Just Because It is August | 2.0 :)
August 4, 2019
I realized I tend to reflect myself more in this month, I mean August. And yeah, August this year gonna be a step to another level in my life, insyAllah. :)
p/s - pray for me yea and kindly share tips for a good marriage if you have any :)
JUST BECAUSE IT IS AUGUST :)
PRIORITIES
To be honest, I regularly read my own posts and reflect how I used to be before and how am I currently. Obviously, life changed me a lot, from working experiences dealing with different kinds of patients, appreciating life when dealing of newborns and oldies etc. Nowadays, I am struggling to put my thoughts into words as I think I haven't properly reflect myself the past one year plus. And I miss to do so, very much.
Just a recap of what I have go through so far - so that the future me will further appreciate how my life have turn myself into a better person, insyAllah.
1. I am already in my 5th posting, Alhamdulillah.
It means I have been in this housemanship for more than a year. To be honest, I still feel afraid to think about dealing with people's life. Recently, my new head of department asked this popular question to us, the new comers in Paediatrics - "Why do you choose to be a doctor?" Seriously, this is a very general question, yet can be quite tricky to answer. I bet different doctors have different reasons for this and there are simply no right or wrong answers. You can help people by being a doctor and you can still help people by not being a doctor.
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| Attending newborn. |
After a while, I realised for me it is actually medicine that chose me and Allah led my way towards medicine. It was hard at the beginning to have the passion as this job is physically and mentally challenging.
But, after few initial weeks of working, I can feel the satisfaction of being a doctor, despite I am still learning my best to be the good and safe doctor. It started with when the patient admitted to ward for some symptoms and I need to figure out what actually happened to the patient based on his/her clinical symptoms, trying to correlate with the physical examinations with the help of imagings (like ultrasounds / x-rays / CT scan ets) plus blood investigation then come out with a diagnosis and try to manage the disease with some plans.
The best feeling is when I would be the one discharging the patient after giving treatment and the patient got better and well. I really love the feeling when the patient does not have the symptoms anymore and when I can see clinically he is getting better - having appetite to eat, able to move around, able to smile and have better conversations with family members.
2. I am getting married soon, insyAllah.
We knew each other for a year plus, have been working together as well. Many colleagues were surprised about this as we don't really show our relationship to others, only those who are close to us knew about it. And I feel glad when the close friends keep on supporting us and still keep the info to themselves. :)
I feel so blessed when Allah gives me the opportunity to have this feeling and may Allah lead our hearts, together, towards the right path till the end, till Jannah, insyAllah ameen.
My parents were very excited to know about this, so do his... and for me parents' blessings are one of the most important thing I consider for a relationship. I love how he approached me, it was sweet, simple and direct, not leaving me with uncertainties :). The exact moment when I seriously considering to proceed was when he went to meet my parents and when he said something like this to me - "I would love to know more about you and to have you as my life partner, my best friend, my companion, my wife, the mother to our children, my partner in crime, my travel mate."
Thank you Allah for sending him into my life and please guide us towards a happy and blessed marriage.
3. #kemasrumahwithhani
I just discover this FB group - #kemasrumahwithhani recently and I totally fall in love with all the posts. My brain wants to live a minimalist life but my heart keep on buying stuffs that I thought I will use. It was difficult to de-clutter stuffs without the guilty or sentimental feeling but some things I need to let go as I don't want to be a hoarder. Alhamdulillah, I can currently control myself not to buy random stuffs, hehe.
Try to explore the group, we can get ideas on how to organize our stuffs - even like how to fold the clothes, how to dry clothes in rainy seasons, how to easily clean the kitchen, how to deep clean the washing machine, how to do food preparation, how to decide when to keep or let go of our stuffs and etc. :)
p/s - pray for me yea and kindly share tips for a good marriage if you have any :)
SM, Perak, Malaysia
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Fikir Sebelum Buang
October 9, 2015
Everybody loves food.
Dan boleh katakan semua orang suka makan. Lagi-lagi kalau dapat makan banyak-banyak tapi tak naik berat badan. One of the best feeling ever! ^_^
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| Sumber - Facebook |
Siapa kat sini pernah rasa bersalah setiap kali buang makanan yang tak habis dalam tong sampah?
Saya! Dan korang pun kan?
Alaa, ada sekelumit pun, kira la jugak tu. :) Naluri kita asalnya suka benda yang baik. Jadinya, bila kena membazir makanan yang boleh dimakan macam ni, rasa tak seronok.
"Patut jangan beli makanan banyak-banyak tadi."
"Alamak, makan sikit pun dah kenyang. Camne ni?"
Inner thoughts most of us.
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| Sumber - Google |
Pembaziran makanan banyak jadi dalam bulan puasa. Hmm, untuk kes sayalah. Perasaan nak makan macam-macam tu, memang rambang mata kalau dapat ke bazaar Ramadhan. Semua makanan nak beli, semua makanan nak rasa. Ibarat takde hari esok.
Dan di penghujung hari, ke tong sampah akhirnya. Peti ais pun dah penuh dengan makanan yang tak habis hari-hari sebelum ni. :p
Sebutir beras ibarat setitik peluh petani.
Popular kan quote ni?
Fikir-fikirkan lah macam mana makanan tu diproses atau dimasak sebelum kita buang. Elakkan membeli atau memasak ikut nafsu, elak pembaziran wang juga :)
Saya ni 'tong sampah'.
Ni quote untuk diri sendiri yang saya cuba sedaya upaya nak hapuskan. Saya memang tak boleh tengok makanan tak habis dan end up dalam tong sampah. Lagi-lagi kalau saya yang kena buang makanan tu. Orang yang biasa basuh pinggan ataupun kemas meja lepas makan ramai-ramai mesti faham macam mana perasaan nak kosongkan pinggan sebelum sabun dan bilas kan?
Pinggan saya biasanya memang akan 'clean' (kecuali tulang, kulit etc T_T). Kalau makan ramai-ramai dalam dulang, memang paling bahaya laaaa kalau dulang-mates tak makan banyak. T_T
Tips;-
1. Rancang makanan sebelum masak - berapa kali nak makan, berapa orang nak makan.
2. Kalau makan kat kedai, fikir dulu, nak pilih makanan sebab nafsu ke memang lapar. Habiskan.
3. Kalau portion makanan tu besar, kongsi dengan kawan ataupun makanan yang bungkus tu bawak balik untuk makanan seterusnya.
"Makan dan minumlah, dan janganlah berlebih-lebihan. Sesungguhnya Allah tidak menyukai orang-orang yang berlebih-lebihan." - Quran 7:31
Okay guys? Reminder for myself as well. :D
Salam Jumaat semua ;)
Fakultni Nemocnice HK, Czech
151009
Kenapa Perlu Buat Begini Ketika Flight Take-Off & Landing?
August 13, 2015
Rata-rata antara kita dah merasa naik flight kan? Kalau belum, insyAllah pasti ada rezeki korang nanti. :)
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| Seat paling 'seram' saya pernah duduk. Serbian Air Belgrade - Zagreb |
Untuk yang pernah, kalau perasan masa takeoff dan landing - memang selalunya flight attendant akan make sure these few things kita patuhi.
1. Shades tingkap perlu dibuka.
2. Lampu plane dipadamkan kecuali lampu baca persendirian.
3. Tempat duduk perlu ditegakkan.
4. Tray makan perlu ditutup.
5. Pakai seatbelt.
Kan kan?
Tahu tak kenapa adanya perkara-perkara ni?
Dah lama dah saya curious nak tanya, tapi baru-baru ni je yang saya dapat jawapan. Reference dari pengalaman flight attendant dan pilot serta few websites yang saya baca.
Pertama sekali, macam yang kita semua tahu. crucial times untuk satu flight tu ialah masa take-off & landing. So, sebab ni jugak perkara2 macam ni diutamakan.
1. Kenapa shades tingkap perlu dibuka?
Bila tingkap dibuka, ia beri peluang untuk penumpang & cabin crew untuk usha-usha keadaan di luar kalau ditakdirkan ada flap sayap yang tak berfungsi ke, ada asap dari enjin ke. Pernah jugak ada insiden bila penumpang laporkan tentang fuel leakage.
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| Emirates Dubai - KL |
2. Kenapa lampu dalam plane dipadamkan (waktu malam) kecuali lampu baca persendirian?
Bila lampu malap, mata kita akan cuba untuk adapt dengan cahaya dari luar. Dan ini membantu sama macam sebab-sebab kat soalan pertama - mengesan apa-apa yang nampak pelik kat luar plane.
3. Kenapa tempat duduk perlu ditegakkan?
Dikatakan bila tempat duduk tegak, ianya dikunci namun ia tak dikunci bila kita turunkan kerusi tu untuk sandar dengan lebih selesa. Ada sebab lain jugak. Dalam masa kecemasan, bila kerusi ditegakkan, ini beri ruang pada penumpang di belakang kita untuk cepat buat evacuation (keluar dari plane).
Paling tidak pun, lebih selesa untuk penumpang belakang duduk dalam 'brace position'.
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| Source - http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/magazine/5402342.stm |
4. Kenapa tray makan perlu ditutup / dirapatkan ke seat depan?
Sama macam sebab untuk soalan ketiga - ia memudahkan evacuation jika perlu. Cuba bayangkan kita nak keluar dari seat, tapi dihalang oleh meja. Dalam keadaan panik, mungkin tak mampu fikir dengan tenang macam mana nak keluar.
Memudahkan 'brace position' juga. :)
5. Kenapa kena pakai seatbelt sehingga lampu isyarat seat belt dipadamkan?
Lampu seat belt tu dipadamkan bila enjin dah dimatikan ataupun plane dah berhenti kat tempat parking / gate dengan stabil.
Pernah jadi satu kisah bila penumpang dah start ambil beg dari ruang kat atas seat tu, padahal lampu isyarat tali pinggang belum dipadamkan. Dan tiba-tiba plane tu tergelongsor sikit (sikit je) tapi itu mampu buat beg yang penumpang pegang tercampak. Kalau kena orang lain, tak ke naya tuuu.
Semua ni dikira sebagai langkah berhati-hati. Kita sendiri tak tahu apa yang akan berlaku pada masa depan kan. T_T
Selamat terbang bagi sesiapa yang travel tuu :)
Selamat terbang bagi sesiapa yang travel tuu :)
SS, Perak, Malaysia
150812
2 Malam Bersama Polis
March 12, 2015
Polis kat sini serius ada kat mana-mana. Depan tesco ada, kat bus station ada, kat stesen kereta api ada. Dan percayalah, kereta polis juga di mana-mana. Bandar kecil je ni, tapi, rondaan sepanjang masa.
Memang nervous sebenarnya bila nampak polis ni. Entah kenapa, biasanya takde buat salah pun tapi bila lalu depan polis, fuhhh, nervous nya tu ibarat macam ada buat salah besar je.
Tapi, semalam, lagi bertambah nervous bila nampak lampu biru kereta polis berkelip2 kat cermin tingkat bangunan-bangunan yang saya berbasikal. Diekori rupanya.
Sah, kena berhenti ni.
T______T
Memang silap sendiri lah. Langgar lampu merah zebra crossing tu. T_T
Masa tu pukul 9 malam, dan memang sikit sangat kereta yang ada kat jalan. Lengang tu ibarat korang boleh buat photoshoot atas jalan tu ha. Nak cross jalan raya, so, cycle lah dekat zebra crossing with traffic light. Malas nak tunggu lama sangat, terus cross.
Zapppp. Beberapa meter lepas tu, terus kena tahan polis.
Ambik. Cekap lagi berdedikasi.
Nak kata apa, memang salah sendiri.
Mujur baru kena warning (siap masuk rekod sebenarnya), lagilah bertambah fobia dengan traffic light lepas ni. Haha.
Dan tadi pun kena tahan polis. Ye, lagi sekali. Tapi bukan pasal traffic light lah. Cuma laluan yang saya biasa guna tu, sebenarnya one-way. Duh. Apakah selama ni, semua orang bawak basikal lalu lalang situ tapi tak sedar benda ni. Haha, ikut pemerhatian sangat ye Nina?
Alhamdulillah, takde kena warning apa-apa, just teguran.
Lepas ni, nak pergi kelas just kena tempuh 2 lampu isyarat. Tapi nak balik dari kelas, kena guna laluan seberang sana pulak dengan 5 lampu isyarat. Ye, lima! Lampu isyarat zebra crossing je kot, tapi lima! :p
Beberapa pengajaran saya dapat dalam dua malam ni.
1. Untuk orang yang selalu ikut peraturan - bila sekali dia langgar peraturan, terus dapat balasan. :p
Contoh macam, seorang ni memang rajin la pergi kelas, tapi setiap kali dia ada kat kelas tu, tak pernah-pernah cikgu ambil kedatangan. Sekali tiba-tiba dia rasa malas sangat nak pergi, boleh la pulak hari tu ada attendance list :p
Kan kan? Hehe
2. Jangan expect yang kita dah expert untuk perkara yang kita selalu buat.
Orang kata, makin banyak kita belajar, makin kita sedar banyak benda kita tak tahu kan. Life is a continuous learning process, ambil pengajaran ye untuk setiap apa yang berlaku.
3. Berdedikasi dalam bekerja.
Kejadian semalam tu masih kuat dalam ingatan ni. -_-" haha, efficient sungguh pakcik polis ni.
4. Bersabar
Nak tunggu lampu isyarat bertukar hijau di tengah-tengah jalan raya yang takde langsung kereta tu - serius menguji kesabaran. Sabarlah. Ada sebab kenapa wujudnya lampu isyarat kan. Hidup ni kena ada peraturan walaupun tak semua peraturan tu orang suka. Tapi orang still kena ikut sebab nanti hidup kucar kacir.
Rules are meant to be broken.
Really?
Not this time and this way I guess. :p
Mudah-mudahan lepas ni everything will be smooth :)
Hradec Kralove,
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Self Reflection - Kim Jong Kook in Malaysia
June 25, 2013
This article is not mine. But, I guess I would like to share it here. Well, I know many of Korean or KPop fans are bloggers too. :)
I can't say it is wrong to be a fan. I am not a Mufti or anyone to make any fatwa. And my words are not a fatwa. People have different point of views and I have mine. It is just that I need to ask you to reflect your point of views by reading this article. Maybe you will have something in mind later. Peace :)
Sources :- Qistina Abdul Malik's FB. She is a fan too, tell you!
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[Moderation & Modesty : A friendly message from a fan to another fan]
If i have Kim Jong Kook's (KJK) phone number, i would gather up my faith, call him, try not to shriek when i hear his awesome mosquito voice (hehe) and tell him ;
"Bro you have to stop coming here. I don't know if you noticed, but I saw lots of my muslim sisters crushed their faith, pride and modesty down to pieces upon seeing you. Yelling their throats out and jumping their hearts out upon seeing you.
Or at least, please, just don't let them touch you. It bleeds my heart to see another sister just freely touching and holding your hands.
This is not really your fault, I am just explaining why i think that your presence here will do more harm than good to my fellow sisters."
I was watching the pictures from KJK's recent visit to Malaysia, and nothing hurts a sister more than seeing another sister shutting off her sense of modesty upon seeing him. How many were shouting like crazy? How many were trying to touch his abs? How many were trying to shake his hands? Really? Do we really have no sense of modesty and shame? Have we forgotten what our parents and teachers told us? What our religion taught us?
( "..If you have no shame, then do whatever you wish" )
How many went without their parents permission? How many lied to their parents to come? And..how many missed their prayers? How many forgot to pray? How many didn't even bother about their prayers?
This is not a bias statement. I am not saying this to make his fans mad neither do i hate him. I totally admire and respect his good traits, but i'm putting this from a muslim fan's point of view. A celebrity might be super cool and we might admire them to the highest extent possible, but, our belief and principle should always come first. We are always a muslim first; a muslim doctor, a muslim fan, a muslim singer,etc. The principles of Islam should always come first. Always.
I've been a fan of KJK since his XMan days. Whether as a singer or a performer or a comedian, i think the dude's great. His determination can be quite motivating. But as someone who wouldnt know if i can control myself on seeing him in real life, i prefer KJK staying inside the laptop as he had always been doing for the past few years. No shaking hand, no coming close, no skinship, no crazy yelling, just KJK inside the laptop. Just that.
I wouldnt go around running after a celebrity, thats not how i roll.
I just don't think its fair that our other sisters in syria are fighting their rapists and oppressors, while here we are in malaysia, some fighting among our own, to see who can get a better picture of KJK, or who can get closest to him. Some in other parts of the world are fighting to stand for their right and pride as a muslim women, while some of us here are flushing off our own pride down the drain for KJK. Its.Totally.Unfair.
So here's a request to all muslim fans of KJK who went to the showcase, who yelled, who shook hands, who missed their prayers, and everything else, please, let us, together, REFLECT ON OUR ACTIONS. Are our actions befitting of our muslim names and responsibilities?
Lasty, It'll be a dream come true if i see KJK asking a fan, are you a muslim? And if she said yes, then he says, "ok let's keep our distance then. Don't come too close okay?"
Daebak !
*no offense to the one in the picture, i made sure no faces were shown. This is to remind, not to humiliate anyone.
No offense. No hate. Peace out Papitus!
(Please share if it does any good to any fans.)
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Well, good writing, right? I had my self-reflection and I guess sometime, we need to moderate our behaviors. Yeap, I know you just can't resist him. But, we can remind ourselves by thinking of the rewards Allah will give us later by controlling our nafs? :)
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I know the feeling of being a fan. I was a fan. Maybe still a fan. KJK is a shy, talented, hardworking, dedicated man who I know from the screen. I never met him in real life, maybe I will go overexcited, but please pray that I will not.
And maybe you can also pray so that I feel nothing on him too :)
Ad-Deen, Buzulucka
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